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To find, after your Problem, and know why you are like you, I texted her the symptoms and she asked whether she knows what it is. Then, not too long after she was threatened, and said very bad things, but now I'm not easy to answer. If you really want that love, affection and understanding that relationships can provide, then you earned it the hard way. If you really want real relationships with people, then you need to learn from the mistakes of the past, examine you, and make the necessary changes. If you and your emotions are unpredictable, go to couples therapy with her and talk with her about her behavior. You will do everything you can, and stop holding on to nothing, you shut up about your feelings or make you feel like it is all your fault, you are this way. You simply go. Reading this, I think, how crazy I am, how I am an attractive, educated, financially secure women, you don't loose your family and friends, if not careful. If the bpd person was, I would kill him. Happy. I hate it. It took the love of my life, and triggered you to be in pain so much. For a while I wondered whether I was not only arrogant to that I have BPD myself, but it is not true that I thank God. Your article sucks, the hope is that ppl with BPD as I have no hope in a relationship. You can't simply do not provide emotional nourishment for your partner, and slowly drain your soul. Could it be that I'm on my period, I'm in a small debate with my friends, or I'm just tired. When I read this article, I was copying actually using the link and send it to my husband so he could read it. Splitting, idealization, obsession with a potential partner, promiscuity, wantom spending, none of this stuff is good for US as BPD-patients, and yet we don't want to blind the people only a blind eye to this behavior to accept but at the same time, and you embrace it, because none of it is really our fault. It is rare to meet someone who identified really their parents as the culprits, because the deception is so deep of a BPD or cluster-B mother or father.

I think the burden of proof is on us to prove to the people affected by the BPD that you would otherwise have through our positive behavior. What him this permission will help me, the feeling that he will help me and not just say, any time he wanted. It takes a true hero to go with BPD, the treatment, to tell the truth about yourself, instead of doing, like each other, and the work, when it seems that no one cares and everyone is out to get you. The best thing is to find someone who has a sense of a strong personality and strong self-conscious self-worth, because you are the one who will tell you no and put your foot down. We do, suffering from depression, it can lead to destructive behavior, probably because we are treated right, from the sexual exploitation that we endured. The worst thing is that I wish I had the skills to cope with the situation, but I did all the wrong things, and we broke up. He helps me to calm me down, if he can see to raise my voice begins, and I begin to speak in a frantic-like sound. The emotional roller-coaster ride was not as intense (or even usual), that I once again had the chance to think about whether I love you or not, let alone develop love for you.

Then explain to her how this is bad for you, as best you can, tell her not to abandon her, but how to get to the setting you both free. I did everything for you, I would have still done everything for you, except to the victims, my sanity and my health. He threatened to kill my male friends, trying to unlock my phone with my thumb while she slept, cheated, pushed, shoved, chased, blocked my car in numerous places. Don't let someone make you feel worthless and low bc of your lack of beat to their own personal problems. You do a little more research before you promise an article to write about BPD, because I can tell you I am not a freaky monster, and neither are the other people with the diagnosis of BPD. He got us nearly killed on separate occasions in a volatile, uncertain, jealousy, anger, almost-crash and us in a suburban community, and on the highway 2 more times while it was his child in the car. BPDs spend 95% of the time think about themselves and 5% think about how you can, what you want from others. I don't think you had, until I was in a conversation recently had with you. Yesterday. We were texting back and forth, and I asked her if she would be kind enough to tell me what it felt like to define care taken for (I care as attention, to listen, or heat, to get something back, but not tellin the person, there's this silent agreement and then resenting the person when they do not meet their own). Good luck to all of you who have with BPD and all of the difficulties, in a bpd relationship, or the consequences of a bpd relationship. People without a cluster B disorder is not your Savior, you can't solve, you do not need to tolerate and non-intrinsically safe owe us nothing.